Angel Newman, Investigation Program Director, Child Protective Services, and Toni Wren, Child Protective Investigations
What precautions should caretakers take when posting back-to-school content on social media?
Angel: Limit how much identifying information you include. Be mindful when taking photos that may reveal your address, your child’s school information, or their full name. Remember, not everyone on the internet has your child’s best interest at heart, so minimize opportunities that could put your child at risk.
What should parents talk to their children about ahead of their first day of school?
Toni: Create a family safety plan to ensure your children understand what to do in case of an emergency. Family plans should be clear and specific, mapping out what to do if there is a fire, who to call if there is an emergency, when to dial 911, as well as identifying safe adults to confide in.
Angel: Be sure to discuss safety precautions with your children before their first day of school, especially if they walk home alone. Make sure they know who they can contact in an emergency. Discuss “stranger danger” and educate them not to take anything from a stranger or get into a stranger’s car, no matter the circumstances. Talk with your children about remaining aware of their surroundings and limiting distractions from electronics. Encourage them to use sidewalks, look both ways when crossing the street, and, when possible, walk facing any oncoming traffic. For parents of teenagers driving to school, take some time to discuss road safety and the importance of avoiding distractions, especially from cell phones.
What is a common mistake you see pertaining to back-to-school safety? And what steps can parents take to avoid it?
Toni: Don’t assume school-issued electronic equipment is always safe. Be more aware, look into safety settings, and don’t be afraid to ask questions to create structure. Conduct unannounced spot checks with cell phones, tablets, iPads, and gaming systems. Although devices can provide a good distraction for children, they can also expose them to inappropriate materials.
Angel: If you have children who will be walking to school, consider turning on the location settings on their phone. Help your child identify a walking buddy or include your support network to assist with checking in on the children. Work on finding unique ways to ensure your child is making it home safely.
If you could share one safety tip for parents as their child goes back to school, what would it be?
Toni: Check in regularly on your child’s mental health needs. There is nothing wrong with asking questions and getting into a child’s business to ensure they are safe and okay.
Angel: Make sure you are regularly communicating and educating your child. Parents should work to create an environment where their child feels comfortable discussing their fears or concerns, so you are aware of potential safety concerns. Parents should get into the routine of talking to their child about their feelings about school, friends, teachers and any new activities.
We hope you all have a safe and fun back-to-school season!
