How to Protect Your Child

• Be calm and confident before discussing this topic with your child.
• Do not scare your child; your tone should be neutral, educational and empowering.
• Let your child know that you are always there for him/her and always want to protect him/her.
• Teach your child that the parts of their body that a bathing suit covers are private parts and that no one is allowed to see or touch them there.
• Allow time for your child to process and to ask you questions.
• Have your child identify five safe people they can talk to if someone ever makes them uncomfortable.
• Make talking to your child about personal safety an ongoing dialogue rather than a single conversation.
• It’s important not to interrogate children. Ask simple, open-ended questions in a calm manner: “Has anyone ever made you feel uncomfortable or scared? Has anyone ever asked you to keep a secret?”

Familiarize yourself with the policies and practices of organizations where your children spend time.

• Confirm background checks are conducted on all employees and volunteers.
• Ensure policies are in place that prohibit situations where an adult can be alone with your child in one room when no one else is around.
• Talk to your child to find out if the policies are being followed when you are not there. 
• Require all staff and volunteers to be trained annually on child safety and on how to make a report. 

Be vigilant and ASK questions!

• Watch for changes in your child’s behavior. If your child is reluctant to go certain places or to be with certain people, ask questions.
• Notice their behavior before and after spending time alone with an adult. 

If a child does reveal something concerning, believe the child. Reassure him/her that he/she has done the right thing in telling you and that what happened is absolutely not their fault. Call CPS (800-252-5400) or local law enforcement to report your concerns.

Please do not interview children or contact the alleged offender – report your suspicions and let the appropriate authorities investigate.